Submitted by Joyelle (not verified) on Fri, 07/11/2008 - 17:52.
I think the greatest gift my son has given me is the freedom to say no to so many things that used to clutter my life. From the moment I got pregnant, I stopped doing so many things for other people and started looking after myself. It really made me realize what my true priorities are. Now, if there is no joy in it, I don't do it. What an amazing thing! Now when I feel that people-pleasing urge come on, I take a second thought before I commit myself to something. It is so much easier to lead a more balanced life when you are truly living for yourself, and not for other people.
Letting Go
I think the greatest gift my son has given me is the freedom to say no to so many things that used to clutter my life. From the moment I got pregnant, I stopped doing so many things for other people and started looking after myself. It really made me realize what my true priorities are. Now, if there is no joy in it, I don't do it. What an amazing thing! Now when I feel that people-pleasing urge come on, I take a second thought before I commit myself to something. It is so much easier to lead a more balanced life when you are truly living for yourself, and not for other people.